How do I see myself?

 

What is your view of yourself? How do you see the person that you are? This is our self-image, as it were. You may wonder if it matters or, if it does, why it matters. Well, I would suggest that it matters because how we view ourselves is a very important indicator of who we become.

I think the people who are the most comfortable in their own skin are those who have a strong sense of self. These are the people who know who they are. They’re not second-guessing themselves, or wondering how they should act or look. They know how to just be. And knowing who you are is an important part of life. Otherwise, I think we are living our lives dependent on other people’s opinion of us. We’re always wondering what someone else might think of us. We decide on a course of action, but then we want to ask everyone else’s permission before we go ahead and act on it. And I’m talking about things that have no bearing on someone else’s life. Sometimes we’re so insecure we ask other people for permission to do things that really have no effect on them. “I’m going to the grocery store, Is that OK?’ Probably don’t need to ask their permission for that.

The interesting thing is when we are always asking other people for permission to do things, it’s like we’re asking for their permission to live our lives. We don’t need to do that, unless of course it’s directly having some kind of impact on their life. Also, when we know who we are we feel confident with the decisions we make, because we know we’re making them for the right reasons. A person who has a positive self-image tells themselves the truth about who they are. They’re consciously aware of their weaknesses, but they don’t let that knowledge overwhelm them. They know the changes they need to make and how to make them. This is living an authentic life. A genuine life. Of course none of us knows everything. A secure person doesn’t let that bother them, though. They know what knowledge they lack and how to go find it. I would also say this, “Smart isn’t knowing all the right answers, it’s knowing how to find the right answer when you don’t know what the right answer is.”

Although I’m not this confident person yet, I’m constantly working towards being that person who is confident enough to just be. Confident in conversation and not feeling the need to apologize for just being myself. And a lot of making these changes begin and end with how I view myself.

The reason we are often insecure, though, is because we don’t realize our own importance and significance. We have an importance and significance that we need to realize. But if that importance and significance just comes from us, is that enough?

 

…Let’s go deeper

While having a strong self-image and strong sense of self is important, I think it’s more important to know and realize God’s image of me. Because I’m not just looking to myself for direction and knowledge about myself, I’m looking to my creator to define who I am and my significance in life.
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Genesis 1:27 says, “So God created man in his [own] image, in the image of God created he him; male and female created he them.” This is where it all begins. The fact that God created us, and not only that, but created us in His image gives us significance. When we really think on that and get a hold of that it can make a profound difference in how we see ourselves. I’ve found myself, at times, making this mental shift in my mind from a sometimes down and dejected view of me, to God’s perspective of me. It’s an amazing difference and it’s quite powerful.

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Besides that fact, there are other things to consider. Matthew 10:29 says, “Are not two sparrows sold for a farthing? and one of them shall not fall on the ground without your Father. But the very hairs of your head are all numbered. Fear ye not therefore, ye are of more value than many sparrows.” See, if God knows and cares about what happens to a sparrow, how much do you think He cares about you and what happens in your life?

So, on the basis of this knowledge of our importance, what do we do with it? Well, I would say that, due to God’s view of us, He’s calling us to a higher level of life. Romans 12:2 says, “And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what [is] that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God.” God is wanting us to live a life higher than we often allow for ourselves. He is wanting us to live the life He has always planned for us from the beginning in Genesis—to live that good, and acceptable, and perfect will of God.

Genesis 1:27 says, “So God created man in his [own] image, in the image of God created he him; male and female created he them.”

Psalms 8:4 says, “What is man, that thou art mindful of him? and the son of man, that thou visitest him? For thou hast made him a little lower than the angels, and hast crowned him with glory and honour.”

Matthew 10:29 says, “Are not two sparrows sold for a farthing? and one of them shall not fall on the ground without your Father. But the very hairs of your head are all numbered. Fear ye not therefore, ye are of more value than many sparrows.”

Matthew 10:29 says, “Are not two sparrows sold for a farthing? and one of them shall not fall on the ground without your Father. But the very hairs of your head are all numbered. Fear ye not therefore, ye are of more value than many sparrows.”

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